The Adams Family Connection Part 3: We find Rebecca - and Her Brother's Family.

Just after deciding that I'd exhausted all possible leads to confirm any more details about REBECCA ADAMS's  family details - other than her daughter GRACE who joined the HARRIS family by marrying JAMES (see previous two  posts) -  I had a lightbulb moment 💡and thought, why not try researching the ADAMS family details of my My Heritage  correspondent, James A,  and see if I can find any connection there.   

James A  suggests that the 1% DNA that connects us comes through the ADAMS surname which appears in both our family trees at a similar distance in time.  I wondered if this could be a little coincidental in that it's not a particularly uncommon name; however, it was an obvious avenue to explore. And we had to be related somehow - if not  through the ADAMS family, then who? 

So, with these details of James A's (from USA) ancestors, I set forth: 

CATHERINE ADAMS (born 1801) married John LAMERTON (1795 - 1876) from CORNWALL. 

On the My Heritage site, I searched their names, and the first entry that came up was CATHERINE LAMERTON (born ADAMS) baptised November 5, 1801, in CORNWALL! So far so good. 

And not only just Cornwall, but the parish of St Winnows which is an approximate distance of 24 miles from REBECCA's last confirmed sighting in the parish of TREWEN. (Although Google maps estimates it's an approximate 8 hour walking distance - depending on the starting and end points within each parish - it puts both families in a credible distance of each other.) 

 And, I have already found  a REBECCA ADAMS born in St Winnow who was a contender for being the mother of GRACE (see previous post for details). So all I had to do was join the dots . . . and eliminate the spare Rebeccas I'd found along the way. 

OK, so here's the pathway: 

James A from USA's ancestors CATHERINE ADAMS and JOHN LAMERTON married on 27 February 1819 in the Quethiock parish. Both were residents of that parish at the time of their marriage. 

There is a JOHN LAMERTON  baptised 15th February 1795, according to the  Cornwall Parish Register, and this seems most the most likely contender for the above-mentioned John.  His parents were WILLIAM and JANE LAMERTON (born Garland) and they married in Quethiock in 1784. 

From the My Heritage site details, CATHERINE was born in St Winnow parish, to the parents of JOSEPH (Jo. according to Ancestry.Com records) and ANN ADAMS,  and was baptised on 5 November 1801. 

The most likely parish records for CATHERINE's parents were JOSEPH ADAMS of Lanlivery  marrying ANN CREGOE on 5th June, 1799, in the parish of Gerrans,  which is bewilderingly far from Lanlivery  - a nine hour walk minimum. It seems ANN was a sojourner in the Gerrans Parish - which is odd as there was an ANN CREGO baptised there 25th November, 1770.  Plus an ANN  CREGO died there in 1772, and another in 1796, and another ANN CREGOE married PETER HILL (both of the Gerrans parish) in 1799 also.  Confusing, for sure, but in the absence of any other evidence, I'm going to assume these are CATHERINE's parents. 

Note both JOSEPH and ANN were literate enough to be able to sign their names in the marriage register - which is interesting as REBECCA probably wasn't literate because her daughter GRACE only put a mark on hers. 

CATHERINE's birth date and details did not fit easily with being a sister or daughter of our REBECCA, but I wondered if Catherine's father, JOSEPH ADAMS, could be REBECCA's brother, and our connection was at least another generation back?  (This had been surmised by my USA correspondent, JAMES A, but I needed to find the evidence.) 

Which I have done!

(See previous post for the complete ADAMS family line up.) Joseph Adams, baptised 28 November, 1775, At St Winnow,  was the eighth (recorded) child of THOMAS ADAMS and MARY CHELEY, married at St Winnows in 1763.  REBECCA Adams was THOMAS and MARY's fifth (recorded) child and, therefore, JOSEPH's sister and CATHERINE ADAMS's aunt.  

The connection has been found at St Winnow.

St Winnow

The indisputable confirming evidence (which helps sift out all the non-related Josephs, Rebeccas, Catherines and Thomases) is the DNA connection identified between JAMES A in USA  and me in New Zealand.  Yay for science.  
*Waves to Cousin JAMES A👋👋* across the oceans and generations. Thanks so much for contacting me to consider our connection. I would never have found our REBECCA without your details. 

How  cool that these families  of JOSEPH ADAMS and ANN CREGO can be reconnected after over 250 years. 

I guess this is what you call a family reunion!

The Adams Family Connection, Part 2: In search of Rebecca Adams

This post is as much about the process and detective work of finding out information as it is about the actual facts and information discovered.  Some of the information is repeated from the previous post, as I'm trying to dig a little deeper to find out as much as possible from the few facts I have discovered. Bear with me . . . 

I've been trying to find out a bit more about REBECCA ADAMS and WILLIAM PETHERICK - the most likely source of the PETHERICK in GRACE ADAM's middle name. 

The banns were read in the Trewen Parish three times for WILLIAM and REBECCA's marriage (June 17th, July 1st, July 15th, 1892 - see previous post).  I wonder if church services were being  held fortnightly at this time, otherwise why would there have been a fortnight's gap between each reading?  There is evidence of other fortnightly banns published in the Trewen parish register over the following few years, and  some with a fair gap between the banns and the actual marriage; e.g., the banns were published in the same parish of Trewen for Benjamin Bennet and Grace Bath on October 6th, 20th and November 3rd, 1793, and the marriage (next entry in the register) took place on 14th July 1794. 

Parish Church of Saint Michael in the hamlet of Trewen

The Family Search site records, however, incorrectly indicate that WILLIAM PETHERICK did marry RECBECCA ADAMS on July 15th, 1792,  and an image of the parish register is available * (see previous post for image),  but the 15th July is just the date of the final reading of the banns, not a marriage, and the image is the record of only the banns being called. There are no marriage details. 

The book in the image seems to be both the Trewen banns and marriage register,  and it is clear that there was no marriage  between REBECCA and WILLIAM at a later date as there are no entries to confirm this.  As you can see (if you skim through the book from page to page  on the Family Search site) there is no possibility that the marriage details could have been lost or damaged.  There wasn't that much matrimonial activity in the parish church at Trewen over the decade, it seems, so it is easy to see it's just not there.  It is also unlikely that they shifted parishes to be married, as - remember - baby GRACE ADAMS appeared fairly soon after the last reading of the banns and was baptised in the same parish of Trewen.  Even so, I checked  WILLIAM's parish of Treneglos, and while there were three recorded marriages between June and December, 1792,  there was no record of WILLIAM and REBECCA's.  

A general search of both names in all Cornwall parishes throws up no further evidence of their marriage - at any date.  

Neither is there any evidence of poor WILLIAM expiring between the last calling of the banns  and the birth of GRACE.   There are several William Pethericks in the neighbouring parishes  who could fit in the likely timeframe of age and location, and I've tried tracking their marriages and deaths to eliminate any obvious non-contenders, but it is probably impossible to be sure of which - if any - is GRACE's father - and, therefore, our ancestor as well. Maybe he did a runner . . . Maybe someone didn't forever hold their peace and gave a good reason why William and Rebecca shouldn't marry? 

Interestingly, although there is no mention of any father's details in the baptism register*, GRACE is not identified as illegitimate.  Although, I wonder if PETHERICK is actually intended to be GRACE's surname rather than her middle name.  I wonder if there was an expectation that the marriage would go ahead,  and GRACE would very soon be a legitimate PETHERICK. Whatever the reason - and GRACE herself may never have been aware that it was the name on her baptism registration - PETHERICK did not appear in the record of GRACE's  marriage to JAMES HARRIS. 

As you can see from the 1792 calendar,  if the banns were read fortnightly (with the final one being July 15 ),  on that basis, the next services would have been Sunday 29th July,  and Sunday 12th August - the date of GRACE's actual baptism.  There's nothing to say that GRACE wasn't born during the period of the banns being called; however, it is also feasible that she could have been born in late July  to early August, and that Sunday 12th was the the date of the next available church service - and, therefore, her baptism. 

In the small parish of Trewen, REBECCA and WILLIAM and their circumstances would have been known by most people, so there would most likely  be an expectation that a marriage would be the obvious consequence of a pregnancy, and there was no doubt over the paternity of the child. Presumably. So, what happened? 

Illegitimacy in England was not particularly common, but rose from about 3% in 1750 to about 7% by 1840 (when about one third of the women were pregnant at marriage). Records of baptisms of illegitimate children are usually found in parish registers, with  fathers' names occasionally recorded - or they can be surmised when records of a subsequent marriage appear soon after.  Labels such as base born,  bastard   and even "merrily begotten" could be added in place of the father's name - often depending on the  whim or moral judgment of the clerk recording the details.  Before 1834, it was the responsibility of the parish to pay for the upkeep of its  illegitimate children, and the authorities would certainly do their best to establish the identity of the father so that he could be charged with paying for the maintenance of the said child.  Parishes were unwilling to maintain those from outside the parish,and they were often moved on,  but in our case, REBECCA was of the Trewen parish. There does not seem to be any (accessible?) record of any bastardy bonds under either name, so what happened to WILLIAM still remains a mystery. And how did she support herself and baby GRACE?   REBECCA must have ben illiterate, as daughter GRACE must also have been to have signed her marriage registration with a X.  Therefore, it can safely be assumed that they were not wealthy. 

So, back to finding more about REBECCA. Working on a process of elimination, I discovered a few possible candidates. I'm including their details in case you, dear reader, do any research on REBECCA, and I hope this may save you some time and tears. 

(1) 
Rebecca Adams, born Luxulyan, 5 April, 1779, to John and Mary Adams. 
Rebecca Adams, died Luxulyan, 17 October, 1779  (no further details - feasibly the same Rebecca?) 
Rebecca Adams, married Lanlivery, 12 December 1800, to William Littleton (and died 1810). I found the marriage information in an online family tree which gave this Rebecca's birth details as 5 April 1779, Luxulyan, which is less than an hour's walk from Lanlivery and is the adjacent parish. Assuming the family tree is correct, then the Rebecca that died in 1779 is not the one born in 1779. Or this family tree made a mistake with the baptism details.  Either way, this is clearly not our Rebecca.  

(2)
Rebecca Adams, born 22 July 1770, St Mellion, (about 5 hours' walk  from Trewen) to John and Grace (Ooooh, mother called Grace is a hopeful sign!) On further investigation,  
the only marriage of a John Adams and Grace that I can find in an acceptable  time frame and location is at Altarnun Parish  (about a 6 hour walk from St Mellion) on January 9th, 1749. On the Family Search site, this throws up a family tree for John and Grace. *

 It's quite comprehensive, and (from Cornwall Parish Records) has John baptised in St Mellion in 1729, and Grace Herring (Haring elsewhere) baptised at Altarnun in 1727 or 1728.  

There are baptism records of the following children to John and Grace Adams, in the parishes of St Mellion and Pillaton (a 45 minute walk between): 

1750 (7th December) - Mary Adams (parents' residence given as Pentillie Quay), St Mellion 

1752 (26th July) - Grace Adams (parents' residence given as Pentillie Quay), St Mellion, 

1755 (2nd May) - Elizabeth Adams, St Mellion

1761 (19th Feb) - Catherine Adams, St Mellion, 

1763 (3 January) - Jane Adams¹, St Mellion 

1766 (21 February) - Susanna Adams, Pillaton

1770 (22 July) - Rebecca Adams - St Mellion  

This could be our Rebecca - it would make her 22 at the birth of Grace, but I need more evidence. Both Mary and Susanna (likely to be from the above family) produced children with no baptism records of a father:  Mary,  at age 25, with daughter Elizabeth,  in 1775 (Pillarton Parish),  and Susanna, at age 27, with son Peter Jope (Adams) in 1793 (identified as base child) in the  approximate 45 minute walk away parish of St Dominick. It seems Susanna eventually married the father. . .Peter Jope, and went on to produce at least 15 further children, including one set of twins and two Richards.  It's not inconceivable (couldn't resist that) that our REBECCA could be in this family, as  there seems to be a bit of a pattern of daughters being "no better than they ought". Susanna, signed her marriage register with a X which seems to fit the illiterate nature of this side of our Cornish ancestors at the time. 

Just when I thought I'd run out of other possibilities, I located another Rebekah Adams in St Winnow. 

(3) Rebekah Adams, born St Winnow c. 1771, which would give her an age of about 21 at the time of GRACE"s birth. Family Search * give the details of Rebekah Adams baptised 1st January, 1771, at the parish of St Winnow, with only the father's name (Thomas) given. 

There is a Thomas Adams who married Mary Cheley in the parish of St Winnow in 1763, (Cornwall Parish Records) and this looks like a probable contender for Rebecca's mother. He - or the parish clerk - doesn't seem overly inclined  to include the mother's name, as there clearly was one. 

Further research on this Adams family reveals the baptism dates of the family of Thomas and Mary Adams of St Winnow. Note - Online Cornwall Parish registers don't appear to have these details yet, but they can be found on Family Search.

1764 (6 March) Charity Adams, daughter of Tho. and Mary

1765 (26 November) Catherine Adams, daughter of Thomas and Mary
1767 (10 February) Mary, daughter of Tho. and Mary  

1768 (26 December) unnamed child of Thomas Jnr Adams died. 

1769 (5 January) unnamed child of Thomas Jnr Adams died 

1769 (4 April) Thomas Adams, son of Thomas (note: no mention of mother from here on.)

1771 (1 January) Rebekah Adams, daughter of Thomas Adams 

1772 (29 September) Catherine Adams, daughter of Thomas(note: second Catherine)
1774 (4 April) Henry Adams, son of Thomas Adams 
1775 (28 November) Joseph Adams, son of Thomas Adams 
1778 (7 April) John Adams, son of Thomas Adams 
1779 (30 August) Mary Adams, daughter of Thomas Adams 

Interesting to note that the mother (Mary) is included in the parents' details up to 1767, but only Thomas is attributed with the parenthood for the  rest.  So many pregnancies for poor Mary and she doesn't even get recognised in the register. It's probably more to do with the parish clerk or writer of the records than Thomas's information, but it would be interesting to see the original documents when they eventually come on line, just to  see if there was a change of writer.   Note also, the burials of the two unnamed children were fairly close together - less than two weeks - and the fact that there are two further children named Catherine and Mary strongly suggests that the deaths were of their two youngest children at that time: Catherine and Mary.  It can be surmised that their deaths were connected and may have been something contagious - or mid-winter related.  Note also that Thomas is identified as Thomas Jnr. I wonder if his father was Thomas Senior and was still in the district? 

4. There is a (most likely our) REBECCA ADAMS whose banns were published in Trewen Parish in late 1799 / early 1800 (see previous post) to ROBERT HANCOCK - possibly the father of REBECCA's short-lived baby ANN in October 1800 -  but there is no further confirmed  information to be found for either. 

5. There is a photo image of a marriage *licence between PETER DARTON of St Stephens by Saltash and REBECCA ADAMS, (sojourner) in the same parish in 1805, but again - no  further information.  If this is our REBECCA, by a long shot, she certainly would have been a bit of a recidivist fiancee.. . 

I've tried to find connections  and confirmations through sister Lynn's Ancestry.com DNA matches and my My Heritage DNA matches, but while there are plenty of leads to Cornwall and the same family names and parishes, there has been no Eureka! moments yet. Funnily enough, I've found  DNA matches who have connections to the Littleton family name  of the not-our-Rebecca in Lanlivery - but I can't find a common name yet.  

So, although I am no closer to finding out who our REBECCA ADAMS was,  I know who she definitely wasn't and who she might possibly  be. Which is a bit closer than I was this time last week. And I'm certainly getting to know my way round the parishes and local family names. 

Next blog post  - the search continues . . . 

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¹ Note that there are two separate entries for  the baptism of Jane Adams  of St Mellion (John and Grace's daughter) in the Cornwall Parish records - one is for her baptism on 3 January, 1763, as a son! The other is for Jane Adams (John and Grace's daughter) born 3 June, 1763, as a daughter.  I feel this is a transcribing issue as these seem to have been transcribed twice by two separate people. As you can see from all these daughters, it may have been a bit of wishful thinking on the parents' behalf!

Map of Cornwall parishes